How bad is this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2004
How bad is this?
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Thu, 09-23-2004 - 11:23am
Okay, so I've been writing about this guy that I slept with that just wants to keep a line of email communication open, nothing else. Well, all the advice I got on this was just to let him go, he's not interested, he got what he wanted. I totally agree with everyone's advice, but last night, I went out with friends, had a lot to drink and I called him and left a VM inviting him to an event next week. I told him to call or write me with his response. Was that a stupid thing to do? I know I will never communicate with him again if I don't hear from him. Have I turned myself into a crazy girl in his eyes? Can I redeem myself with him? Have I gone too far, should I have not made that call?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
In reply to: rockicon
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 4:11pm
Hon, he'll call if he wants a booty call, after the event.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: rockicon
Thu, 09-23-2004 - 5:09pm
You had never spoken to him on the phone - only email - and you decide to call him up in the middle of the night? Don't you think thats a little rude? If you were ready to write him off, why not give him a chance by saying, "I want to meet in person and see whats going on here". Be honest, be direct and stay sober.

I doubt he call back. Chalk it up to experience and keep trying...

Go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2004
In reply to: rockicon
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 3:09pm
Here I go again! I seem to not be able to let this one go. I sent him an email (a group email) inviting him to a sporting event. He responded the next day, but he was unable to go. Now, I know I should just leave him alone, but he keeps responding to my emails. Is he just being nice or what? I know he's not interested. But i'm finding it really hard to let go of this one, especially when he will respond to my emails. I didn't communicate with him for over 2 weeks until yesterday. Do you think that he thinks I'm now one of those pyscho girls that just can't let go? This is both funny and frustrating to me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2004
In reply to: rockicon
Mon, 10-18-2004 - 12:30pm
I will tell you what is going through his head when he hears from you.....WHEN IS THIS GIRL GOING TO GET A CLUE? Honestly sweetie...don't contact him anymore. You look totally desperate and clueless.

Sincerely,

Jodie

 

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