How to break up when living together
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How to break up when living together
| Mon, 03-01-2004 - 12:31pm |
ok, I have been going out with this guy for about 2 years now. We got engaged about 6 months ago. He has a bad temper and I am scared of him. He is very posessive of me and believes I am "the one." When we first got engaged I thought being with him was what I wanted. Then my grandfather died about 3 weeks ago. I moved some of my stuff out becaause I needed to help my mom andmy grandmother through it and i needed to be with my family. So right now I am not currently living with the guy. I love his family like they were my own, and i care about this guy, I just dont love him like i used to. I have tried to break it off with him 2 other times but he got really mad so I backed off. My question is how can I break it off with him without backing down?? Please help!! I cant live like this anymore

I would break up with the guy with family or friends around this way in case he does get mad at you - you can stand firm with your decison its also to be safe in case he tries to harm you - you should be with a guy out of love not fear and if this guy is treating you like that make sure your honset with him and make sure someone is with you so you can stay safe!!!
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So, I know what you're dealing with. One very delicate situation. I would agree with the other posters that the best way to move out is discreetly in this case. Make sure you get all of your things (every last one) in one trip when he's not home. Take whoever you need to make sure you can do this, if you don't you may never get back what you leave behind. After you have recovered your belongings, call him or write him a letter to seal the break up.
It seems like a long road, but it gets shorter as you get furtehr down it. I promise.
Ivy
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Ivy
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