>>Tell him the timing is not right in dating and being in an intimate relationship, it's not him, and you have some things you need to work on right now.
I didn't suggest going into details on teh 'why' part. I have been asked that - and I just reiterated that 'this wasn't working for me and I think it best to not see each other any longer'. People who ask for details and
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Glad to hear that you were able to do this and that it didn't go as badly as you feared.
Well, interestingly enough, when I had "the conversation", he mentioned that he'd never had the courage to tell someone -
It's easier when we are honest than trying to make things up to say because we don't want to hurt the other person.
Anna
>>Tell him the timing is not right in dating and being in an intimate relationship, it's not him, and you have some things you need to work on right now.
Toni
Anna
Oh, wow, I hope the guy you ended things with will learn from your gracious example and not just disappear on people any more!
My guy resurfaced yesterday--he had a fight with his mom on Thanksgiving and needed to withdraw for a couple days.
Let him know that you want to have a conversation about something serious so it's not a bolt from the blue
and yes its good to do it when he doesn't have to worry about going right back to the office
I didn't suggest going into details on teh 'why' part. I have been asked that - and I just reiterated that 'this wasn't working for me and I think it best to not see each other any longer'. People who ask for details and
Toni
If you can't get rid of this guy...you can resort to dirty tactics.
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