How could they do this to me?
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How could they do this to me?
| Sun, 04-18-2004 - 5:07pm |
I dated a guy for two years, and we broke up a little over a year ago. We have been seeing each other on and off since then, and yes, we have been intimate. Very resently we have been talking about calling it quits for good. In the past month, my roommate has been giving him rides when I couldn't (his car is in the shop). I didn't think too much of it, until I found out that they have been spending a lot of time together. I heard rumors from her cousin that she introduced him as her boyfriend to her aunt and uncle. I confronted her about it, and she insisted that they are just friends. I want to believe her, but I have a gut feeling that they are actually together, and are sleeping together. I haven't confermed it with her yet, but there are too many coincidences to believe otherwise. It makes me sick to think of them together, physically sick. I can't believe that as a friend and a roommate she would do this to me, and he has a lot of nerve too. He's not worth it to me anymore to try to work things out, and neither is she. I can't move out or kick her out because our lease is not up until July. I just want to deal with it and move on, but I don't know how. Any suggestions?

I'm sorry you have to go through it, why are men such pigs? But here's something that beens helping me, if a guy really loved you, he wouldn't make you feel this way. If he makes you feel like this right now, he's not going to make you feel any better in the long run.