How do I ask him out???
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| Mon, 10-30-2006 - 4:11pm |
Hi all,
I'm in dire need of anonymous, whole-hearted advice. I feel like I need a little more confidence before I pull this off, even though I already have my girlfriends behind me.
Here's the deal...
I recently decided to get a part-time "fun" job to help pay off some debt and fund a vacation I'm going on. It's a banquet serving job at a hotel, and I actually love it. I've worked there for 3 months. About a month into the job, I started having dreams about my boss's boss, we'll call him Kyle. Nothing sexual at all, just dreams that we were together/dating/whatever. I have about one dream each week, and over time, I've become more and more attracted to him. And the more I've talked to him, the more I'm liking him.
In a non-agressive way, I found out Kyle is single. He flirts a little, ate lunch with me last week (on a work break in the cafeteria), and jokes around. I told him last Saturday over our lunch break that it would be nice to know him in regular clothes. We flirt at work, but neither of us have made a move.
I feel that due to Kyle's position (being my boss's boss), he is a little restricted. I've never asked a guy out before, so I'm a little hesitant (not for any other reason that fear of rejection). Today, I won tickets to a hockey game next week....perfect opportunity. I'm working with him tonight.....help me!! What do I say? How can I bring it up? How can I do it casually so we're both comfortable, no matter what the outcome??
Help girls, I need a boost of guts!!!!

Umm, sorry to burst your bubble, but personally, I wouldn't.