How do I break up with him?
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How do I break up with him?
| Tue, 11-09-2004 - 12:32pm |
Okay, I'm ready to dump him. Thanks to input that confirmed I have every right to be suspicious and upset that my boyfriend of 3 years is excluding me from areas of his life. ie: screening phonecalls, keeping me from other social areas of his life.
My past experience has taught me that sometimes relationships are like puppys. You have to catch them in the act of peeing on the floor to make it clear this behaviour is unacceptable. So... here's a question, do I wait for the next unacceptable behaviour to set the example of why I'm saying "Ciao Bebe" or do I just go over tonight and lay it all on him. All the reasons of why I don't trust him, how I'm feeling and why I'm ending it. Right now he has no clue this is going on in me.
My instinct is saying play it cool in the mean time and when he "doodoo's on the floor", rub his nose in it and end it right there. I know the probability of another screened phonecall is just around the corner.
Advise please.

Sheri
I am sure there is someone out there who would treat you the way you should be treated. That is the best advice I can give...having recently recieved advice I didn't want to hear but still knew it was the best advice...and I am going to take it.
Good Luck