How do I deal with this
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| Mon, 08-22-2005 - 2:16am |
Ok...Here I am again...restless about my boyfriend's special girlfriend :-(
Granted, I am hyper-sensitive, and do not like to share my bf with any other, more so with another girl. And this one happens to be close. If I go ahead and DO believe that there is nothing going on, and they are JUST very close friends, and that is all, how do I deal with it? Just go with the flow, and act like I am cool? Act like I like her even if I don't? (I have no idea whether I will like her) I have never met her. Should I ask my bf if we both can speak on the phone sometime? After that one brief intro, he has never even mentioned or asked if I'd like to speak with her. And he never takes her calls in my presence. I think that it is weird that he is "not in the mood to talk" everytime she calls, and I am there. Is it OK for him to discuss with her about our relationship? And I should not mind it, is that right. Because guys and girls do discuss in detail about their relationships. I just dont want to be competing with her. How do I make my presence known. Hope I don't have to put up a fight for it. Anyone here in a relationship with bf/husband/date who has a close girlfriend?
Is it normal to feel this insecure.
What can I tell my bf to do/say to make things better. He seems to be at a loss, and doesn't know how to deal with this whole situation.
| Mon, 08-22-2005 - 8:33am |
