How do I get him to notice me again?

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Registered: 08-23-2004
How do I get him to notice me again?
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 1:09pm
I am going to school with my ex-boyfriend.....and we hang out with the same friends.....and I still love him so dearly....I want to get his attention again so we can become better friends and repair it so he may rethink about going back out with me.....PLEASE HELP!!!!
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 2:05pm
weird as it seems, guys notice a girl more when she is friendly but independent of them & their feelings

i think your ex knows that you still have feelings for him and i can imagine it's not easy for you to hide it when he is around. so.. he enjoys his power without thinking of making a move. sorry to say that but that's what it seems to me

ex means "past" and there was a reason why the two of you split up. accept that it's over, no matter how great it was and move on. maybe it's a better idea for you to avoid him for a while.

it took me 6 months to realize that there was no way back for me and my ex. 6 damn months of hidden tears, heartbreak and silly hopes. until the day it became obvious for me that past is past, no matter how great it was. and i'm able to move on and date others. now my ex is my friend and his feelings for me are stronger than mine for him - he seem to care more about me and my wellbeing than i do for him. paradox of life..

forget the guy, or you risk to get hurt even more. or at least pretend hard not to notice him much, do not look at him, show him that you forgot him and moved on. soon it will become a habit and trust me, he will wonder what has changed. you want to be noticed, don't you?

good luck, keep us posted

N

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Fri, 08-27-2004 - 8:42am
Show him that you are strong and independent and he will respect you.

You can't make him notice or like you.

Just be a confident individual and that will grab his attention more than anything else.

Hang out with new friends of both gender .