How do I hit 'rewind'?
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| Sun, 08-08-2004 - 2:53pm |
We had a fantastic and long conversation on the first date. It was unlike any first date conversation I've had, so I agree that we met for some reason, though not necessarily for dating...I mean, who knows? I am open to find out and explore it, but I am not naiive about it either. All I know is that this is a guy who I want to develop some type of rapport with.
The problem is that we got intimate too soon, and I went back to his place. I don't even know why I did it, because I wasn't even sure I wanted it to go in that direction. I think I just felt so comfortable with him right away. Anyway, I feel that it immediately neutralized this great energy that we had together, and now I am worried that we killed a potentially interesting and inspiring creative freindship.
It was Monday that this happened, and now it is Sunday. I am not sure if I should play the waiting game, or try to call and explain what I explained above, or what. What do I do? I don't want to kill the potential of a romance either.

After we first met, he called a few times trying to make a date. We had made a date for that Friday, but I cancelled after the time got too late and we rescheduled for Monday. Monday we had the date, and he hasn't called since then. It is now Sunday.
I think the reason intimacy should be held off is because of the way it confuses things. He is probably expecting that I will want a romantic relationship with him right away...which is not what I want, necessarily. Like I said, I'd have to see. I can understand why he'd be hesitant to call.
Sheri