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How do I know?
| Tue, 04-27-2004 - 12:30pm |
A friend of mine and my mother tell me this guy has a huge crush on me but he is too shy to ask me out. We are both in our early twentys and he is 2 years younger than I. He and my brother worked together one summer and became friends (he works for a friend of mine) so thats how I know him. We seem to get along and have fun hanging out on the rare occasion that we do. He'll tell me I should come and hang out sometime (at his house) but I have never received a specific invite. How do I know the difference between just want to hang out and too shy to ask you out?
Last week my friend even went to the extent of call him to tell him we would make a cute couple and if he'd consider asking me out. He said yes, but now I'm a little embarrassed and don't want him to think I asked her to do that, but I wouldn't mind if it helps. He'll be at a party I'm having this weekend, but he might come to visit with my brother.

Kristi
If your brother and this guy who likes you are TIGHT....let your "bro" help you out.
Since you've unofficially had the invitation to join the two guys...do it. If you find strength in numbers...bring along a girlfriend who isn't gonna get interested in the man you like. Maybe....if your brother has a girlfriend....you could kick around the idea of attending a concert, ballgame, go bowling or doing something as a 4-SOME, but on a friendship basis?
This doesn't necessarily mean you have to be "paired off"---but the arrangment might make things a little less awkward for you.....and perhaps your "would-be boyfriend" too?
Best of luck and I hope you eventually get the man of your dreams?
Pianoguy