How Do I Know If He Is Interested?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2004
How Do I Know If He Is Interested?
2
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 3:50pm
I have been out of the dating scene for a long time (even longer story) and the other night I went to a bar by myself for the first time ever. I ordered a drink from the super cute bartender and spent several hours sipping on free drinks and flirting with him. When I decided to leave, he leaned over the bar and hugged me and kissed my cheek/lips (which I am pretty sure was intentional since he did it twice) and told me that it was really nice to have met me. BUT he didn't ask for my number or anything... was he interested or just flirting or just assumes if I wanted to see him again I could stop by... should I? When? Alone?

Also, is it pathetic to go to a bar by oneself?

Thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 5:01pm

Bartenders are notorious flirts... it's part of the business.

 Start

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2004
Tue, 09-07-2004 - 5:31pm
Thanks for your advice. It is interesting that from my post that you assumed I was married!!! And even though I'm not, I am still not ready for anything serious -- so the bar is fine to get my feet wet. Also, my drinks were free, not so good for business, right? But hey, I want to see what I want to see! I guess for now that is just to be desired! =)