How do I know if he's interested?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2003
How do I know if he's interested?
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Mon, 05-07-2007 - 5:47pm
I have a schoolgirl crush on a trainer at my gym. He and I just started working out together and I can't get him out of my head. He is TOTALLY my type and I am soooo attracted to him. He invited me to a party at his place the other night, and while we got close, nothing ever happened. I texted him the next day thanking him for the party and he never texted back. I'll probably see him this week at the gym and we'll schedule our next work out. How do I send green light signals so he knows I'm interested without throwing myself at him?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Mon, 05-07-2007 - 9:04pm

I wonder why he didn't respond to the text message?

You can tell him you had a great time at the party when you see him. Maybe you can plan an outing with your friends and you can reciprocate the invitation by stating that a bunch of people are going to a bar and would he like to join you? Just a suggestion off the top of my head.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 3:24pm

you can ask him casually if maybe you can have coffee sometime - you'd love to pick his brain and mention some workout related questions, see how he responds


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 05-18-2007 - 3:10pm
I agree.
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