How do I make guys like me?
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|Thu, 11-22-2012 - 4:05pm|
Hi everyone, I am 20 years old and I really have trouble getting a boyfriend or meeting the right person.
I know this sounds prosy, but I mean it. I have only dated once in my life and it was with the help of a friend of mine, and it lasted...12 days. Ι know i am not the kind of girl every guy will run after, but I take care of myself, I eat healthy, I exercise and I know I can look pretty cute when I want. The last two years that I go to uni, I always expected that I was going to date guys exc. but nothing ever happened...Guys approached me during nights out and everything was going fine, we exchanged numbers, sometimes we went on a date but after a while they just disappear. All this happened with 4 different guys! I don't think that I am awkwaard or anything, truth is that I am a person who likes conversations, so I don't play easily flirty, but I am always smiling and trying to be nice. I often concluded that meeting guys in night blubs isn't really for me, since I don't go out a lot and they probably aren't my type of guy...But where else can I meet guys and start a conversation? Some other guys that I met they immediately friendzoned me...I find it very difficult to show more than friendly interest without seeming obsessed....Now, I have a crush over a boy ,he is the brother of a friend of mine and we immediately became very good friends. I though we really matched, we always talked for hours and I know he was having fun because he always complimented me on how intelligent I was and sometimes on my looks, too. But he never really called me, it was always me who did the first step...and today we were suppose to eat together, the 2 of us, at mine, and the last minute he told me he isn't gonna come, with the most natural voice ever. I guess I am friendzoned again...why can't he see me like more than just friends?
All of this really makes me sad, since I am very romantic person and always dreamed of having a serious relationship, sharing a normal, cosy life with the one I love. And my life is everything except this...all my friends are getting in couples so I am starting to questioning myself what I do wrong, that's why I am writing here. I don't need advices such as ''be yourself'' or ''look good'', but if any experienced in relationships girl (or guy) knows a bit more on how to make guys like you, or maybe guess what I do wrong, I am really willing to hear it! (or better, read it!)
Thanks a lot.