How do I meet guys, I mean really
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How do I meet guys, I mean really
| Mon, 04-12-2004 - 11:16pm |
I can't meet ANY. And I've been doing the online thing for long enough to know that I am quite sick of it. In ordinary life, I NEVER meet any single men in their 20s. I mean WHERE do people meet? I worked with a bunch of guys my age at my last job, but they were all in serious relationships or engaged, so I never even considered any of them. My friends don't know anyone...my one friend who has a boyfriend with single friends has some kind of social hang up about introducing us to anyone...I just don't understand, am I supposed to pick guys up on the street? on the train? in the grocery store??? I mean how is meeting a guy possible, either there aren't any, or they lock themselves in their apartments and never come out!

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i'm in the same position. i'd definitely like some hints. i met 2 guys at a club a few weeks ago and kept in touch w/ them. got together w/ one last week..and was warned about 'the light test' and he failed. he wasn't as cute as i remember. :( so now i'm back at square one
"girls never have difficulty meeting guys"
This is simply not true.
"and if you girls are so picky about club scence then why do u even go there"
You were making assumptions here based on a little light hearted humor.
"besides i havent found a single girl who likes me either"
So you're going to take this out on us? And I'm sure that that statement isn't 100% true...
"i think u need to look carefully and give some average joes a chance too"
This is a HUGE assumption on your part--how would you even know what type of guys any of us go for?
"picky pricks"
Simply uncalled for...
Please if someone has a good advice for us in this same position, please do tell.
The times I've met the most guys are the times when I was doing things to advance myself. I've met a ton of guys in school, clubs, organizations I belong to, etc. So my advice is to join groups that interest you whether it be softball or literary groups or going back to school for a class... You're at your best when you're doing what you like and that tends to attract people.
Hope this helps.
A friend of mine swears by Starbucks. She finds a busy one on a Saturday afternoon and plants herself in a chair with a book. She says she always gets approached. I just don't think I could sit around that long waiting for a guy to pick me up.
Sheri
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