How do I meet guys, I mean really
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How do I meet guys, I mean really
| Mon, 04-12-2004 - 11:16pm |
I can't meet ANY. And I've been doing the online thing for long enough to know that I am quite sick of it. In ordinary life, I NEVER meet any single men in their 20s. I mean WHERE do people meet? I worked with a bunch of guys my age at my last job, but they were all in serious relationships or engaged, so I never even considered any of them. My friends don't know anyone...my one friend who has a boyfriend with single friends has some kind of social hang up about introducing us to anyone...I just don't understand, am I supposed to pick guys up on the street? on the train? in the grocery store??? I mean how is meeting a guy possible, either there aren't any, or they lock themselves in their apartments and never come out!

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if you're already doing this and seeing potentials, maybe you could sacrafice a little female pride and make the first move. guys love it and you can speed up the process =].
if you're still not meeting anyone, continue doing what you love or try something new that interests you. many of my friends have thrown "singles" parties. if you have friends that are all dating someone, trying throwing a party that requires each couple to bring single friends. this way, you're meeting singles that you trust.
i think all the information is great. i'm sure it'll help many people.
i have simply given up on trying to find someone to date. i'm not looking for mr. right, the one and all that, but my family is going to start thinking i'm a lesbian or something if i dont start bringing more guys around. (thats a joke!) anyways, i tried the whole meeting through friend thing. the club thing just aint happening for me. i go to dance and have fun w/ ma girls and never drink. but i know waht the other poster means by guys trying to own you after one dance. lol..
yeah so i'm just lost and i've given up. i just can't think of anything else.
and i dont think i'm picky, is asking for someone who is cute and who you have something in common with being picky?? hmmmm
Perhaps you're narrowing your horizons a bit-just because you meet a guy in a sports bar doesn't mean he's a sports fanatic whose only interest is sports. Maybe he's just there to hang out with his friends. I mean, my DH likes to watch sports but he's not glued to the TV every time there's a sporting event on. And I'm not talking about just sports either-I mean, let's face it you may be interested in art but there just aren't that many guys who are going to be hanging out in a museum on a Sunday afternoon-that doesn't mean they couldn't be interested in art, it's just not something a lot of guys would do without a girlfriend. I'm just saying that if you want to meet single guys, you've got to go places single guys are going to be. And I wouldn't rule out a whole group of people based on one interest they may have that you don't share.
Weddings are fun and you often meet new people as well, not to mention you get to dress up!
The old saying goes when your not looking they will find you, so the key there is to circulate in the places you love most, then when you find someone of interest, you may just have something in common.
Bars are not ideal as you don't necessarily want to have alcoholism in common, that's a bad thing!
Circulate to perculate my dear and they will find you, when you least expect it. Dan Auito
Hmmm, based on your attitude in this post, I am not the least bit surprised that no single girl has liked you.
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Hmmm, misplaced aggression? Or just a stinkin' bad attitude?
You need patience my friend.
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