how do i reassure him
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how do i reassure him
| Thu, 09-29-2005 - 2:47am |
hi im seeing a man who is divorced like me we are both in our late 40s he wants to take one step at a time as he has been hurt which i can understand last time i saw him we had our first row and to me i feel as if its a step back i got into a sulk as he had withdrawn from me and made no attempt to give me a goodnight kiss he told me that a wall comes up and not to take it personally and if i want to give him a kiss or a hug to do it and he will give me one back how can i reassure him i wont hurt him

How long have you been seeing him, first of all. Also, I think it's great that he told you, 'look, this is my communication pattern, i'm not saying it's good but i want you to know so that you don't take it personally.' he told you he wanted you to reach out.