How do i take this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2004
How do i take this?
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:18am
Hey all,

Heres the situation and id be grateful for opinions on this.

I was seeing this guy for over a month and then we had asmall argument and it sort of ended - no1 really finished it we just sort of both backed off. But we work together not in the same department but we have seen each other since then and recently hes been coming in on days off and he comes up to talk to me and we get on fine talk away and have sit together at breaks. on sunday though when i was finished he asked me for a hug and we were flirting and when i left he said "call me" Now heres the problem i really like this guy and think he still likes me but dont know why he hasnt called me or made a move, the first time round he was so shy and i actually ended up saying are you going to ask me out then he did and we had fun dating. But since we split he has said why dont you call me anymore ididnt only because i thought it was over and was trying to get over him.

His ex used to call him all the time and when they split she kept calling cause she wanted back so do you think hes not made a move because he doesnt like me or because he thinks i dont like him because im not on the phone to him all the time? And where do i go from here?

Sorry its long but an outsiders view on this would be great

thank youxxxxxxx

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 2:13pm
i think if you really like this guy you should ring him i was in the same situation as well, totally got the wrong impression of this guy and when i rang he was delighted i rang ,so i think you should ring him. you have nothing to lose if he likes you he will be delighted you rang.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2004
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 6:38am
Hi thanks for replying,

im really really scared about phoning him, i dont know if i can do it, because he hasnt replied to a text message i sent him so im scared to phone him in case i make a right fool of myself then i have to go into work and face him. He did tell me to send him a text message but he didnt reply to it and i dont know what thats all about?

Im shaking just now because i really like him and dont want him to think ive gone off him because i havent but i dont understand what hes doing

thanksxxxxxxxx