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How do I tell him?
| Mon, 11-15-2004 - 9:10am |
hey guys,
There is this guy who my friend introduced me to in April and we've been talking ever since. The problem is that he lives a good 5 hours away. We have been such good friends the past 7 months...we've only met 2 times in person but when we're together in person it seems to fit even better. Everything about "us" seems perfect! I've had several mutual friends and his roommate that he likes me but doesn't know how to go about making a move since we're so far apart from each other, it would be hard. I am completely head-over-heals for this guy. Lately he's been working a lot more so we havn't talked quite as much as we normally do, but he still sends me messages on my phone throughout the day letting me know that I'm on his mind and checking to see how I'm doing. He's really great...I couldn't ask for more...actually, I am. I really want us to be together, I don't care about the distance. He's the most amazing person I have ever met and if I lose him because I didn't take initiative or for any other reason my world would fall to pieces. How do I tell him how I feel for him? I really think this is something I have to do, and now. I just don't know how to do it...I think I might be in love with him. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVISE!!
There is this guy who my friend introduced me to in April and we've been talking ever since. The problem is that he lives a good 5 hours away. We have been such good friends the past 7 months...we've only met 2 times in person but when we're together in person it seems to fit even better. Everything about "us" seems perfect! I've had several mutual friends and his roommate that he likes me but doesn't know how to go about making a move since we're so far apart from each other, it would be hard. I am completely head-over-heals for this guy. Lately he's been working a lot more so we havn't talked quite as much as we normally do, but he still sends me messages on my phone throughout the day letting me know that I'm on his mind and checking to see how I'm doing. He's really great...I couldn't ask for more...actually, I am. I really want us to be together, I don't care about the distance. He's the most amazing person I have ever met and if I lose him because I didn't take initiative or for any other reason my world would fall to pieces. How do I tell him how I feel for him? I really think this is something I have to do, and now. I just don't know how to do it...I think I might be in love with him. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVISE!!
Thank you in advance!
Crystal

Bellina Fair here, can totally relate to your story with your potential beau. I believe
there's alot of positive aspects here despite the long distance between you. One being
when you did get together there was mutual attractions to one another and a comfort
level. This is so vital in a love potential relationship.Agree strongly with Sherri
in that I would ask if he would plan a trip during the holidays. If so fabulous for
getting to know each others true personalities away from your friends. It is quite
refreshing getting paired up by one's friends who care for our best interests.
In a passed relationship,I too was introduced by my best friend to Pete,at the time I
thought was sincere,affable,charming and quite good-looking.Dated him for several months
before we got intimate and felt a true love for one another.We're so happy,however
my story ends sad as he had to move back to N.J. due to illness of his dad.P.S. this
was alright at first,I'd commute by train(2 hrs)weekends to be with him,but,it got
harder due to job duties(mine) and his.Too much stress,not enough energy or time to
be intimate,he lost that lovin feelin,as the song goes. I was heartbroken as he
still chose to reside in N>J. after his poor dad passed. Couldn't take the commute
and passions ran cool.I can only hope the best for you and your future amour that
the distance will not stop love from blossoming.Best wishes your British pal Bellina Fair.
Please do call him,I believe your fellow is worth pursuing,he sounds genuine and a
great catch! Cheers!