how do i tell him im pregnant?
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how do i tell him im pregnant?
| Fri, 10-14-2005 - 10:14pm |
yeah
so how do I , considering that he is not interested in having kids? Our relationship has been a bit rocky and we just got on the same track with our feelings... and this happens. This can either make or break us.

You have to be the strong one for you two now.
GOOD LUCK
missyfoosy...
Pianoguy started humming the song: "IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO" by Todd Rundgren---after he read your post.
It's too bad your b/f didn't choose to use protection to keep 'the bun from getting inside the oven'---BUT HE DIDN'T!
What you need to ask yourself is....
1. Do I want to be a 'single parent?'
2. Is this the sort of man I'd like to have around as a companion...as well as an influence for my future child?
3. Could I make 'a childless couple' happier if I skipped the parental responsibilities and put my baby up for adoption after it's born?
Pianoguy
thanks for all the great advice. He is younger than me (25 to my 31) and still a boy in a lot of respects. I do love him a lot and feel that at 31 I should be ready for a child, even if he's not...we spoke and he feels that because we have only been seeing each other for 7 months that maybe this isnt he best thing to do right now....and i somewhat agree. It is this inner battle I have that makes me want to say, " hey I can do this with or without you" or respect his feelings here.
I just struggle with this "Adult" ideal of what you are supposed to do as an adult. Im supposed to have my life together. im supposed to not be in a situation where im dating a kid. im supposed to be ready for a baby at this age...Im not sure what's what anymore.
get back to me someone.... having a hard time talking to people i know about this
You say:
"I just struggle with this "Adult" ideal of what you are supposed to do as an adult. Im supposed to have my life together. im supposed to not be in a situation where im dating a kid. im supposed to be ready for a baby at this age...Im not sure what's what anymore."
No, all you are SUPPOSED to do is be yourself. You can date whomever you want, whenever you want. The only thing you need to do is figure out what is right for you and your unborn baby. Don't worry what society, your friends, your family are thinking. Stand on your feet and make your own decisions.