how do you know?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2003
how do you know?
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Wed, 11-30-2005 - 11:35pm

I don't get myself sometimes. In the past year, I've dated every jerk in the book. I finally met a really nice guy who has a brain,a job and is interested in me. He wants to do things with me (take me out, etc). It's been going semi fast so i don't know if I'm just making myself doubt this or I just don't want to be serious with him. I'm stressing myself out when this should be fun.

Thanks!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 6:52am

riese2002...

Pianoguy suggests that you stop making comparisons between former B/F's and the man who is currently interested in you.

ALSO...S-L-O-W DOWN and take the relationship at a pace that's more comfortable for you!

If the man is truly interested in you (and we're not talking just to get you into bed), he'll acknowledge the fact that you don't want to be RUSHED!

By the way...just because a man takes more than a 'passing interest' in a woman...a woman is under no obligation to respond the same way! So if you're not 100% sure the man you're currently seeing IS "Mr. Right" for you.....don't encourage him in any way.

Nothing ticks a man off more than a woman who behaves one way...when her feelings are the exact opposite! !

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 8:27am

It's perfectly okay to slow things down and/or you just might not have chemistry with this guy.

One day at a time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 3:24pm

You need very badly to try to "chill".

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