how fast should this go?

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Registered: 05-07-2007
how fast should this go?
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Mon, 05-07-2007 - 2:28pm
Need some advice here. I went out for the first time with a guy I met online. The date went really well, we laughed and had a great time. After dinner we sat in the car and talked and ended up making out (kissing, heavy petting, etc...) But that was as far as it went. The thing is it kinda seemed like the next time we see each other we may go farther. I am now not sure that I want to have sex with him yet and I don't want him to ask me out with only the thought of us going to his house. How can I explain to him that I like him and I'm not sure how far I want to go physically and I want us to kinda date and see what happens. I want him to ask me out with a date in mind--dinner, movie, or even renting a movie and ordering a pizza--whatever--but to get to know each other and let the physical stuff develop naturally
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Mon, 05-07-2007 - 3:49pm

"How can I explain to him that I like him and I'm not sure how far I want to go physically and I want us to kinda date and see what happens. I want him to ask me out with a date in mind--dinner, movie, or even renting a movie and ordering a pizza--whatever--but to get to know each other and let the physical stuff develop naturally."

Say it just like you said it above. You might not want to do the pizza/movie at his house if you do not want to be alone with him the next time you see him. You might not make it through the movie, if you know what I mean.