How to get your "claws" in a man
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How to get your "claws" in a man
| Tue, 05-18-2004 - 2:27am |
I'm a 29yr old single female and never had a boy friend. I can get the guy but i donot the right technique to use to keep them. I used to think it was about sex. But know i know i am damed if i do and damed if i don't. There use to be some technique out there to get a man to be interted enough for a second or relationship i have no idea what it is Please help me withthis. People always say that they are not ready to settle down but after i go out with them one is all and then they are in a realationship with some one else

First of all, stop referring to it as getting your CLAWS in a man.
Start
I think you need to relax and just enjoy the process of getting to know someone. Once he gets to know you, then he will start to care about you. If he talks about his past...its like he is sharing himself and his life with you...that is how men bond. So listen to him, have fun with him and share your hobbies & interests.
But don't try to "force" anything...just let it happen naturally. Good luck!
And, make others who are with you feel comfortable, too...
Perhaps, by being relaxed, easy-going, smiles, good level of toleration...
Be attentive, patient...
However, should mix the above with your + points, like intellegence, witty, womanly, name it..
It's good if you can 'click' with your date..
By choosing topic that you both are interested in, but the topic should not be heavy..
nice topics such as, perhaps... movies, songs..sports..?
It's not really good to think too much of what's next.
Just enjoy that moment..
because, that moment's what counts..for him to bring you to next level or not...
Try to bond with him,
If you can't bond with him, it's not your loss anyway,
because...you don't want to be with someone who doesn't share your interest..it'd be hard
to maintain the relationship anyway...
But, keep in mind, that you have to be yourself..