How important is sex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-21-2004
How important is sex?
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Mon, 06-21-2004 - 5:39pm
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Edited 6/22/2004 12:17 am ET ET by quest2004
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 6:03pm
guest...

The man may love you....but it's love with restrictions! At 50...there are certain habits many of us get into that'll never change. We will try to make some alterations, but they might not stick! This could be the reason your children are receiving "mixed vibes" or have a reluctance to get close to him?

As for the "no action below the waist" thing...he's probably being a gentleman. There are still some of us left on the planet. Problem is...he might be very conservative when it comes to SEX. His interest might be minimal...or non-existant. So if you're considering marriage with this gentleman, SEX is an issue the 2 of you will honestly have to talk about.

Bottom-line (no pun intended)...if you're left "wanting"---why not regard this man as a good friend...and instead, seek out a person who will be a good husband to you and a 'surrogate father' to your children?

Remember...all men AREN'T marriage material. Some of us are just supposed to give you utensils, cook you dinner...and fall asleep on your couch until you ask us to go home!

Pianoguy