how to let a guy down in a good way

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Registered: 02-06-2005
how to let a guy down in a good way
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Thu, 12-14-2006 - 7:47pm

Hi there,

I have a little problem, I have been friends with a guy sience we were kids, in high school. We have always flurted and i always thought it was all in good fun. But in the last few months, He has been calling me, and asked me if I would be interesting in meeting him for sex, even thow he has a girlfriend. i have to say that I thought about it, because in some sense I am itiching to give it up. But in the end I told him that I was not going to do it, if he did not have a gf then i would have given it more thought. Now he is calling a common friend and asking questiong about me, like were am i, am i with anyone and were can he contact me, i am thankful that the common friend did not give out this information, but its only a matter of time. What I need to know is how can i let him down with out hurting him, also how can I let him down with letting him think that he is better off staying away from me for good ?... Bye the way any advice in how to attract posative guys

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 12-14-2006 - 8:21pm
This man is asking you to have sex with him while he already has a girlfriend, which I don't think is very polite. Therefore, I doubt he will be "hurt" I can just about guarantee he has thick skin. You need to tell your common friend that you are not interested in this man whatsoever and the man should focus on his girlfriend, not you. You can block his phone number from your phone and he will get the message.