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| Fri, 11-12-2004 - 10:29am |
Okay, continuation of my last post of genuine or a line, which some of you might have seen! I have a guy's number, he has mine - he said why not to going out for a drink - and also i'll contact you or you contact me........ who contacts who first and should i wait a couple of days and then phone him if he hasnt contacted me?? Help!! Not been in this dating game for a long time,..........and would rather play it a bit cool so as to not appear desperate! Any help on this would be great!
Alice x

I can relate to your phonecall dilemma totally. My man friend approached me this way,but asked me for a drink after his late work day ended 10pm,food managers.Anyway,
my reply for that time was no,as I was seeing my ill mom in hospitol daily,she
being terminal,physically was waring of me. Boldly called him(i'm shy)and said I'd take a raincheck,agreeing to meet him the next night after work at neighborhood restaurant for
a drink. Our wires got crossed,I was waiting for him at the bar of this small hotel,not
seeing me,but I saw him walking toward the back,ringing me on his cell. I tried to get
his attention,finally he went to the bar where I decided to stay,could see him walking
toward me a little stressed,but happy nevertheless. If you like this fellow be bold
and call him,if he returns your call then he's truly interested. Years ago it was
considered unladylike to ring up a guy first. Today some men actually feel less pressured
and glad as you're letting him know you're interested. I've come to know this fellow who's
a trifle bit shy and actually preferred me to make the first move. It has actually
helped us become better attuned to each others feelings, and they're
blossoming quite nicely in affections de le couer.Good luck luv,best wishes for a future potential romance! Bellina,originally from Liverpool(resided near Sir Paul McCartney/musician.like his old song, says All you need is love, to the long and winding road..to his heart!