How long should a woman wait
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How long should a woman wait
| Sat, 05-13-2006 - 12:37am |
Generally speaking, how long can a woman go along with a guy hoping he'd commit, before she should REALLY get worried and think about moving on?
It has been 5 months with him. Is it too early for me to worry if he isn't ready to date seriously yet? Or should I wait and give him more time.

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Hun,
I don't know if I can be of much help since I'm currently dating as well, so I can't claim to be an expert. However, I'd have to agree with some of the other posters that it is a good idea now (after 5 months) to have a talk with him to see where he thinks things are going. If I were you, I don't think I could continue seeing him if he can't date me exclusively after 5 months. But it's up to you to decide whether you can handle that if his response is not what you want to hear. Also, I wouldn't bring it up as an ultimatum (i.e. "if you don't date me exclusively, I'll call it quits" kind of talk), but just how you feel and what you want to do at this stage of the game (IF it's really what you want to do at this stage of the game). Then it's up to him to decide what he wants to do to stay in the game with you.
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