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how men have no emotions
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 2:08pm |
Hi, I have been hanging out and sleeping with someone off and on for 1 1/2 now, he says to me its just sex now with no emotions - how can guys do that?? i wonder if it't just the guy I'm with or are there alot of men like that???

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YOU could be the best woman in bed on this planet...and your b/f loves everything you do to please him. But that doesn't necessarily mean he's going to "take you downtown to buy a diamond or a new set of living room curtains!" A permanant life with you could be the farthest thing from his mind!
Don't want to burst your bubble...but some of the best women (in the bedroom) can actually make a man uncomfortable or embarrass the heck out of him in a social situation! Are there any traits of yours that annoy him or that he's told you about? The last thing any man is going to do is share a life with a woman who has habits he can't handle!
Now if you honestly feel that YOU are being used as "a sexual tool" and nothing more...and this is not what you want...GET OUT NOW! You don't have to take this crap or hold your breath waiting for "Mr. Stud" to appreciate your other talents!
Believe it or not...there ARE men who appreciate women for several of their qualities, whether they happen to be IN or OUT of the bedroom!
Pianoguy
PS- No, not all guys are like that
i think you were totally out of line with what you said piano guy. and while i agree with you i think you could have found a more tactful way of stating your opinion.
The reason he says no emotional attatchment is because he knows you are disrespecting yourself by being his FB, and he will not have an LTR with you because of it! He does not respect you. He is using you for sex, and i guess its ok with you, since its the norm for women these days. I wouldnt want an LTR with you either.
Who else is he FB's with? And you? STD'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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