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how men have no emotions
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 2:08pm |
Hi, I have been hanging out and sleeping with someone off and on for 1 1/2 now, he says to me its just sex now with no emotions - how can guys do that?? i wonder if it't just the guy I'm with or are there alot of men like that???

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If you want more from this relationship then sex, then why are you agreeing to a FWB situation if you really want more?
He's saying from the getgo it's just a FWB, if you didn't like those terms you don't agree to them. He's not likely going to change his mind.
All the posts that I've contributed to ivillage during the past 2 years...and we're talking "Dating Doyenne", "Answer Man", "Relationship Saver", "Guy Talk" and "Understanding the Opposite Sex"...have been very honest. Sometimes an honest response isn't acceptable to some people?
Pianoguy's thoughts are based on the words that people use in their posts. While some of my opinions may seem a little harsh at times, they are very sincere, direct and HONEST! "Sugar-coating" isn't what my ivillage friends want from me! They want a straight answer to their problem...and I'm happy to provide one if I can.
I've made several wonderful friendships through these boards. But I apologize if I upset you.
Pianoguy
By the way, when I checked out your profile...I noticed that your birthday is on November 19th. Pianoguy's first son (whose name is Jeff) shares that birthdate with you.
I'm in exact the same situation. Well,I'd say "used to be"....I haven't been with my guy that long but I fell in love and realized that keeping seeing him would just kill me. I stoped that. That was hard but I decided to have NO contact with him. I even delited him from my IM friends list so I won't see his name, delited his phone number, e-mail address. I erased him from my life. Yes, it was hard and I cried A LOT. But time's going by and image of him becomimg more and more bluring...Move on because you're making yourself very vulnerable. What if he meets someone and fall in love? Wouldn't it kill you?
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