How to move on?

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Registered: 03-26-2006
How to move on?
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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 10:36am

Ok. So, I went out with a guy for about a week, and it become apparent he is not over the drama of his ex-girlfriend, and his life is a mess. We became just friends and talk a couple of times a week.

I wait for his call. Its just so sad. I like talking to him so much. I email him to see if he is ok. I will make odd calls. Its like I can't get over him. Really I don't think I can get over having someone really like me.

What do I do to stop myself from this? Should I stop myself? Last night we talked for an hour, and it was great!

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Registered: 11-24-2004
In reply to: vacn31
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 10:50am
Think of all the drama and problems you'd have dating someone with a messy life. He's not emotionally there for you and he may never be. Do you want to wait around for him to be ready? There is no guarantee he ever will be ready.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: vacn31
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 2:22pm

Go cold turkey. That's it. He's unavailable - at least for the immediate future. I don't know what you mean by saying you can't get over having someone like you. He likes having someone to talk to about the woman he's obsessed with.


Make a real effort to get out there and meet someone who is emotionally free.

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