How often do you see each other
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How often do you see each other
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 5:24pm |
I have been dating this guy for a little over a month now. I am totally into him and he seems to be really into me to. The one thing is that he is such a "fly by the seat of your pants" kind of guy. We never make plans. He usually waits until the last minute to ask me to go and do something. It really bothers me, because I really like hanging out with this guy, but when your friends ask you to do something and then he calls... well you know what I mean it sucks.
My friends say that this could be my fault. I usually go right on over when he calls, they say I make myself too available. They say I should play hard to get. But I don't like to play games and I love hanging out with him. Maybe this is just the way he is and I can't change it, or is my availability in turn causing his reactions? Hmmmm....

However, he may not...you may just be incompatible in this regard. If that's the case, it's up to you to decide if you can live with it.
Sheri