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How should I act?
| Sun, 08-14-2005 - 1:06am |
Hi, last year I meet a guy in one of my classes. He acted like he was really interested, always sat next to me, always getting my attention and then the very last day of class he didn't make a move or even ask for my phone number. As I was leaving out the door, I couldn't resist and gave him mine and told him that I was happy that we had meet. Well he never called or emailed me, I know have learned he is in my class that starts in Fall. I don't even know why he is taking this class that is not even in his program??
How should I behave towards him? I was kinda of sad and little upset that he didn't want to keep in touch, but time has made me forget. I'm actually getting kinda of nervous to see him again. Thanks for any advice!

I say, that you already made the first move and it really was up to him to follow through with calling, or emailing, if he was truly interested in you. He could have a good reason like the previous poster suggested (it's important to keep an open mind and give him/the situation some benefit of the doubt), but he also could have had a girlfriend, or he just "wasn't into you..." You will know as when he sees you, I would think that it would cross his mind..... and that he would say something if you two were actually friends?
Regardless, really try not to look into it so deeply or get yourself worked up (nervous) over this guy. I know you like him, but do you really want that big of a challenge where he gives what you percieve to have been interest signals, then doesn't do anything about it even after you made a very big move to give him your contact information?
I wouldn't make any more moves, be very casual, and just see if he strikes up conversation with you and mentions anything about the not calling or keeping in touch. Don't be nervous, think of yourself as a precious gem that any guy would be lucky to get to know -- and, if this guy doesn't see that then there are a lot of other men out there worth getting to know who have mutual interest, or goals in which they are willing to pursue... Good luck!!!!!
~~SD~~