How soon is too soon?
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How soon is too soon?
| Wed, 06-28-2006 - 4:21pm |
I met this guy that I really am attracted to. He seems to be really into me as well. I know I might be jumping the gun but if this continues when is it ok to sleep with him? There are just a lot of sparks and it seems like we are really attracted to eachother in all ways. I don't want to ruin anything though. Any advice? Thanks!

hollsi...
Pianoguy would like to answer your question with one of his own:
"After you've decided to sleep with the man a few times and he suddenly stops paying attention to you....can you handle the rejection? Or will you start feeling angry, bitter, and EXTREMELY ANGRY?"
Any woman can 'surrender her body' when she feels the time is right, but expecting a lifelong guarantee of fidelity from THE MAN WHO HAS ENJOYED HER...is another story entirely!
Think about it...
Pianoguy
How often have you dated him? Have you slept with other people? How will you feel if you sleep together and he fades away?
There are no hard and fast rules other than be safe but very often when a girl sleeps with someone she
winds up feeling an intense emotional connection which maynot be reciprocated 'cause to guy it was just sex.
Do what feels comfortable but not something you think you might regret, Besides, waiting