How to tell a man you're not interested?
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How to tell a man you're not interested?
| Thu, 11-15-2007 - 1:39pm |
Well..I went out with this man on three dates and I had a nice time but I am not interested in continuing to date him.

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do it the same way if the roles were reversed - with dignity and kindness. I've done this before and said "You are a nice man and I enjoy (have enjoyed) the time we've spent getting to know each other. I don't feel the level of chemistry that I know needs to be here for a serious relationship.
Toni
Thank you Toni! I have written a bit of a "cue card" for when we get to talk to eachother...I do not want to get nervous and just blur something out that might be offensive or rude.
Unfortunately no one has "let me go" with kindness and respect lately, when I did my two years of internet dating - the guys that let me go
Toni
Yea! I know what you mean about zero chemistry and not even being a little excited about seeing him or hearing his voice on a VM or anything.
yes - I have to feel that passion with someone - and if its not there, nothing else will override that - at least for me.
I have lurked on the Mismatched Libidos board some - and also have a close friend who is
Toni
English is my second language so when I get nervous I forget how to speak - any language.
if he is someone that will remain in your social circle, then something like "You're a great guy and I like you a lot but I prefer that we remains just friends"
Toni
Thanks for clarifying.
Yes, I do know what you mean.
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