How to tell new boyfriend to call
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How to tell new boyfriend to call
| Wed, 11-24-2004 - 4:00pm |
My new relationship is almost a month old. We are officially "boyfriend" and "girlfriend." Everything is going great except for the fact that he does not call me before he goes out and when he comes home at night. We talk about a couple of times a day..when he wakes up and early evening to see what we are about to do for the night. I see him about three to four times a week. I don't want to be a nag about phone calls but it does bother me that he does not call when he is out. I wake up several times throughout the night or early morning to see if he has called. How should I approach him about it? Should I talk to him seriuosly or just give him a dose of his own medicine? Should I just let him be? I need some new relationship advice. Please help.
Edited 11/24/2004 4:03 pm ET ET by jennivz
Edited 11/24/2004 4:03 pm ET ET by jennivz

Well, personally I would not expect him to call me when he's out or when he gets home, unless he says he is going to. I think talking a couple times a day is *plenty* (if not too much already, given that you also see each other 3 or 4 times a week). I would just let it be.
Sheri
Guys generally are not as phone or talk oriented as we gals are . . . . if he's calling you occasionally, and seeing you 3-4 times per week. I think you are doin' pretty good in the contact department. Don't nag him about it -- adjust your thinking a bit to realize that he DOES call you, instead of looking at the times he DOESN'T call. He will need/want some time alone or with his buddies, so don't intrude on that or he may panic & run.
Remember, he had a life before he met you, and just because he's now seeing you doesn't mean that his previous life has vanished.
Enjoy what you have,
Traci