hymen breakage

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-05-2005
hymen breakage
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Fri, 07-28-2006 - 4:29pm
I've only had sex with 3 people, the third one being my current boyfriend, who is very well-endowed. The first time we had sex, it hurt and we had to ease into it. I also had a tiny bit of bleeding. The first guy was maybe average size, and the second was a little small, but neither hurt at all. Is it possible for me to have had sex with these other 2 men and not had my hymen broken until now?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Sat, 07-29-2006 - 12:14am
Yes, it could be possible if you have the flexible hymen type that can strech. However, it's possible that at the time of intercourse you're not lubricated enough not to cause bleeding. Perhaps, the bleeding isn't from the hymen, as you're not a virgin anymore, but from the lips or the vagina walls. Be sure to get enough lubrication, even if it's artificially, and to be aroused enough for your vagina to enlarge and allow his penis in you without discomfort.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 07-29-2006 - 9:53am
It sounds like you did indeed have your hymen broken but if you have any doubts you should see a doctor. Where are the doubts coming from? If you're not educated about sexual matters it is important to become so - i.e.: about sexully transmitted diseases in order to make healthy and wise decisions. Best of luck
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