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| Tue, 11-30-2004 - 10:58am |
hello everyone,
I fell in love with this guy at work, and the feelings are mutual. We started as best friends, and a year later we took the friendship to the next level. We have fun together, I miss him when he's not around, but I really don't see a future wiht him. He's a lady's man, which I don't really agree wiht.
I've tried everything in my power to get over my feelings for him, but the fact that we work together and our offices are one besides the others, it's really hard.
For my next step, I was wandering if anybody here tried hypnosis. I know it may sound weird, but I'm at the end of my rope, and any sugesttions would help.
Does this really help? Please, help me.
I fell in love with this guy at work, and the feelings are mutual. We started as best friends, and a year later we took the friendship to the next level. We have fun together, I miss him when he's not around, but I really don't see a future wiht him. He's a lady's man, which I don't really agree wiht.
I've tried everything in my power to get over my feelings for him, but the fact that we work together and our offices are one besides the others, it's really hard.
For my next step, I was wandering if anybody here tried hypnosis. I know it may sound weird, but I'm at the end of my rope, and any sugesttions would help.
Does this really help? Please, help me.

Thanks a lot for your reply...I thought a million times about changing my job, the only thing that this is my dream job. I'm a computer programmer for the Federal Government, and all the benefits and stability that comes with it. If I still want to work for the gvt., I'd have to switch groups, which means that I'm still in the same building.
And knowing him, he'll try and stick it to my face.
He always says that he loves me, but recently there is another girl at work that's "after him". And, being a nice guy, he never mentioned me. I find it sooo hard, because I love him so much and the idea of him being with someone else it distroys me.
I understand hypnosis is problaby not the best way to go about it...but I'm about to loose my mind wiht this guy. Now, I don't want him, but also I don't want anybody else to have him...it's so weird. I'm 29, and I don't remember ever feeling this way about any other guy, not even in my teens.
Hi Lucy,
Again, thank you. I also wanted to mentioned something, but I was scared to for the reason of being rejected by everyone here, who does not know the TRUE situation. Here it is...
I'm married, and I have a 4 year old son. My marriage has been down for awhile..even before I met this guy. The only reason why I am still around is because of my son. He is the most important person in my life, and the idea of only seeing him part time (my hysband and I we'll have joint custody) scares me. I don't want that for my son, especially that he loves us both. My husband is an excellent father and husband, but it's been a long time I'm not in love with him anymore. He's 11 years older and we don't have the same things in common. My parents did advise me not to marry him, but I didn't listen.
Now, this guy from work, he's my age, and we get along very well. THe only thing, is that I'm still married and living at home.
I know girls, this is ridiculos, I was raised better than this, but it's like something or someone took control over my heart and brains (I know, what brains?) and will not let go.
Lots of my friends told me to get a divorce if I'm not happy, instead of living a double life...but I can't part with my son, and I will never go for full custody, and that's because I have no grounds. I will never do that to his father, who's been nothing but the best to me and our son.
Now, I hope you guys understand the situation better...and I know how much I let my parents down, who raised me way better than this.
ina