I am also dating a pervert, and it's

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Registered: 08-23-2005
I am also dating a pervert, and it's
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Fri, 11-04-2005 - 12:05am

I just read someones post message about she is dating a pervert. My boyfriend going on three years is acting worst and worst towards sex. Every time he comes into my appartment, he starts touching himself and starts you know what in his pants, and can't keep his hands off me, and it is bothering me alot, he is acting like a fly that won't leave me alone! The other day, I didn't want to make love to him, after my shower, and ask him to take me to the Bay Area, he went into my room, and started to change his cloths and I heard him start to cuss and get mad and he was messing up my bed, I made a canape for my bed and he sat on it and he never done that before.

But what is weird, when we are out in public, he acts so respectable and has manners, but as soon as we get into my appartment, he turns into this mad hungry animal and can't keep his hands off me and begging me.

I have just in the last couple of months put on some weight and I don't feel like having sex with him,(because, I don't feel pretty and don't want him to see me like that) but sometimes when we are making love, he says he is sorry, for acting like an animal, and I can't help but think when he is away from me, which he lives 2 hours away, that he isn't having sex with someone else, since he is acting like that towards me, he says no, but I don't believe him, since he told me about his ex-wife, and he messed around on her is ex-wife with someone at his work, and the womens husband called his ex-wife and told her what was going on, and he told me he denined it and denined it, ever since that I have a hard time believing him and trusting him since he told me that, and when he looks at other women, its like he is looking threw there cloths and on tv, I can't stand to watch a half naked women dancing around and look at him, it is like he can image making love to that women on tv just the way he looks them on tv.......I can't believe when I tell him this, he said he only wants me, there is no other one like me, and he loves me so much and that I don't understand how much I mean to him, yeah....and that he learned his lesson, then why does he look at women so much and like that?

I only see him every other weekend, and the other weekends he says he is with his son and maybe if I ask him, he will come down durning the week...but I feel like he is seeing someone else, to take care of his sex drive, when he comes to see me, its like he can go on and on, I feel if you are like that, then to keep on going like that, than you are doing it some where else to keep up and doing that in having sex, if you haven't had it all week....I don't know, he is so confussing sometimes, never meet someone like this before!

Help me see threw this, thank you so much, I need your help, thank you, thank you!

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:02am

If this guy is acting like a pervert and handling you like a piece of meat, plus you believe he might also be cheating on you, why are you still involved with him?


You need to trust your own feelings and

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 10:26am

I'm with jajalel here... this guy has issues and the more you post about him, the more I worry. Why are you still with him? It doesn't sound like he has a lot of respect for you or your feelings. You deserve so much more hon. You deserve a man that will treat you with respect and love.


What is making you stay with him?