I am not going to do it this time
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| Mon, 09-05-2005 - 4:19pm |
I fall for a guy pretty quickly and look WAY too much into what he says and does. I analyze things to a fault and get myself to worked up, ok so here is the scenario....
The gym I go to there is this guy that I always talk to and am kind of flirty with. We see eachother out on the weekends and always talk while we are out. So this past thursday at the gym he was asking me if I was going out and stuff and I casually just mentioned that he should get my number and give me a ring if he was going out. He called me that next night and asked what I was up to and what I was doing. I told him I had dinner plans with the family and I would give him a ring afterwards. We didn't end up meeting up. So Sat night he called and I was going out with a girlfriend and we decided to meet up afterwards. I met him and his friend out. He bought my drinks, we danced, he put his arm around me, etc. Well we all went back to his place to hang out. I ended up staying the night(all innocent) The next day he took me to lunch and we just hung out and watched football. So, he walked me out to my car when I left. Gave me a kiss and said, "I will give you a call or you call me. I will be talking to you soon." I know that he is interested(at least I hope) So I shouldn't call him even thought he threw that out there. He will call me if he wants to see me again. Correct? I just need to know if it is ok to call because I have really messed this up in the past. It is about time for the guys to chase me ;-) Thanks for any advice!!!

I would let him call you. If he's interested, he will do so.
Sheri
Hi gal,
I totally know where you're at -- yes, you're right, let him call you! That would be my best advice. I think this is the best way to tell if a guy's truly interested or not in those beginning stages of a relationship. It's hard to do, though. Especially when they throw it out there like that!
I agree. Let him chase you.