I am rusty on dating

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Registered: 08-14-2007
I am rusty on dating
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 4:16pm
I am new to this message board and I am new to being single again so I am rusty on the do's and don't's....Here is the story...I talk with this guy on the phone just about everyday for work, we flirt a little here and there. Well, I just got out of a 6 year relationship which I was engaged. So anyways back to the guy I have a crush on, we start emailing and then we finally meet. There was some attraction, we made out almost the whole time. Well, he tells me a little about himself, he just ended a 4 year relationship and was also engaged. He also said that he is guarded and likes to be alone alot of the times. So, I see him again and the samething a make out fest, well the third time I saw him, it went a little further. Basically I gave him oral sex, I do not know why. I am attracted, and our conversations were about how we turned each other on. This happened this past Sunday, we do not talk on the phone outside of work or communicate. Here it is Tuesday and he is to busy to chat on email. I am not the type to call and keep emailing, I don't know what to do, I feel he is being stand-offish and weary. So, help, how do I recover from this!!!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 08-25-2007 - 2:08pm
I think you intended your post for Inhaynes and it came to my email instead.
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Registered: 12-17-2005
Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:57pm
apparently all he was after was a sexual stimulation. men think differently then we do. he probably thinks you just wanted to provide the sexual stimulation. if i were you i would play it cool and act like you're going on with your life. the cooler you play, the more intrigued he will be.

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