I am sooooo through with all MEN!!!

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I am sooooo through with all MEN!!!
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Thu, 11-15-2007 - 3:47pm

Well this isn't a question, just my two cents on what I think of the male species. I swear I could write a book on all the screw up guys I have met in my life. Anyways, I am 36 years old and never been married with no kids. I have had 3 serious relationships in my life and lately have been meeting jerk after jerk. They are either liars, want just sex (which I don't give it up easily), weird, or just play games left and right. This past guy I thought was soooo different. Granted, we only went out 4 times but I thought I had found a winner. I had such a good time with him. He was married once and got divorced back in 2000. Since then he had an ex girlfriend he was living with up until 8 months ago. She has two teenagers from a previous marriage and they were living in his house. 8 months ago he kicked her out of his house. He never really talked alot about his past relationships with me much but when he did talk about his ex girlfriend (not the one he was married to...the one with the 2 teenagers,) he said she was a very jealous person and he just couldn't take it. I guess she was blaming him for things that was never his fault. One time he said there was a tank top laying on his bed and she didn't know who's it was, so she blamed him of seeing someone else.


Ok, so I met him at a bar and I swore I would never meet any "good" guys at bars, but I thought "hey maybe I just did." He was such a gentleman with me. Our first date he met me out for dinner and paid. The next time we went out to dinner again and saw a movie and he paid. I offered to pay some because I feel hey it is 2007, I work too..I was just being nice. He thought that was nice of me and I paid for the movie. The third time I went to his house and he made me dinner. It was AWESOME!!! I did keep thinking to myself "this is way too good to be true." But I was on cloud 9 and really getting to like him. He would text me in the mornings and say how he had such a good time and I was really nice and he likes me alot. Well the 4th date was his birthday. I was so happy to be spending the day with him. I took him out to dinner and paid, plus I baked him a cake and got him

 

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:02pm

Reading your post really made me think of myself and I am sorry you are/were going throiugh this. I am in the same boat as you were. My "boyfriend" and I have only been together for about a month. I fell for him instantly and we totally hit it off. Everything was perfect and I mean great. Then all of a sudden he quit calling me. 3 days went by and nothing. He called one night apologizing saying he was super busy and had no time to call. I forgave him and all was well. We talked the rest of the night for about 2 hours like we always did. I haven't heard from him since and this was 2 days ago. So I am not sure what to think. Part of me wants to call and end it, but he won't answer and I am not breaking up through voicemail.


I really feel for you and what you said. I seem to fall for all the wrong guys as well. As soon as they sweep us off our feet...they're gone. I hope you are doing better since you posted this blog. Men will come and go...but eventually we will find the right one!

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Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:37pm
I dont blame you for being hurt about your BF (the 2 year guy) not even having the courtesy to talk to you about a breakup.

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