I don't know if I do or don't love him

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Registered: 11-05-2004
I don't know if I do or don't love him
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Fri, 11-09-2007 - 12:22pm

Hi everyone,


i have been with my b/f for 5 months now and it's been great. This guy is just amazing. The problem is, I really don't know if i do or don't love him. not saying i don't love him because he's awful, i just don't know. i have never been in love before and i know that because i have never really had a meaningful relatinship and if i did, it was just lust. i can be myself with him. when we have "schnuggle time", it's the best thing ever!! i care about him so much and think about him all the time.


thing is, some days he's annoying and some days he's not. he's as annoying as a sister or brother or friend could get, not crazy annoying but when he annoys me, a small part of me doubts my feelings for him. if it was my sibling, i know i will have to deal with it, they're family and i automatically love them and can't shake them off lol but for this, i guess because i made the choice to be with him, i critize it. when things are normal, and when they are normal, they are great, i am so happy i'm with him


people say when your in love, you know it,

Just do it and done!!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 12:30am

Regarding that saying... You do know...


Another thing, when the moments come that he annoys you, you wouldn't doubt your feelings for him... to me, this doesn't show that you're inlove with him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Sat, 11-10-2007 - 3:32pm

<< people say when your in love, you know it,

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2007
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 12:57am

Yes, I would say you would know if you are in love or lust.

MEEEOWWWWW
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 10:55am

. Everyone is annoying sometimes.

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