I dont know what to do? Need Help fast!!
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I dont know what to do? Need Help fast!!
| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 8:53pm |
Hey guy's, My situation is a lil complicated. Ok well I met this guy on the internet Lets
Say about 6 month's ago. Well me and him really hit it off and we have alot of things in common. We want the same things in life and I think that's great, but I made one mistake when we met. I sent him a fake pic and now he wants to meet me. I know that was kinda immature but people make mistakes and I admit that it was a mistake. It was very foolish of me. I really want to meet him but I dont know how to tell him the truth. Can anyone give me any pointer's on how to break the news to him? I really do love this guy and im afraid that he will stop talking to me or if he does keep talking to me he will never trust me again. Please help me. I will appreciate any kind of help. Thank you.
Say about 6 month's ago. Well me and him really hit it off and we have alot of things in common. We want the same things in life and I think that's great, but I made one mistake when we met. I sent him a fake pic and now he wants to meet me. I know that was kinda immature but people make mistakes and I admit that it was a mistake. It was very foolish of me. I really want to meet him but I dont know how to tell him the truth. Can anyone give me any pointer's on how to break the news to him? I really do love this guy and im afraid that he will stop talking to me or if he does keep talking to me he will never trust me again. Please help me. I will appreciate any kind of help. Thank you.

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Sheri
The situation with my friends was a little different from yours, because they were actually conversing with women on Internet Personals sites, like Match.com.
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Jessy.
Really, I don't see why everyone is being so hard on you. They seem to be more worried about how the guy would feel, rather than how you feel. You come here looking for advice, looking for support, and instead you are criticized for what happened. You said yourself that you are uncomfortable with how you look. Where is the support in that? Everyone seems more worried about how he would feel and about you lying to him, instead of helping you and offering suggestions on how to feel better about yourself.
The thing to take from this is just that... look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I am beautiful." I bet you have a beautiful smile and a gorgeous set of eyes. Maybe you have shapely legs. If you feel the need to lose some weight, by all means, get involved in some form of exercise. If nothing else, it can increase your confidence, then you will want everyone to see pictures of you.
If you meet this guy, or tell him what happened, and he blows you off, I know it will hurt... forget about him. Maybe on some deep level you felt like you needed to lie to him. Maybe he's a superficial brat. Who knows...
If he's a decent guy he'll deal with it like a big boy. If someone did that to me I would still take some time to get to know them. If I found there was a pattern, then I would take action that was appropriate for me.
Whatever happens, take care of yourself.
A~
If I do tell this guy and he blow's me off, yes your right it's gonna hurt. But there are plenty of guys in the world. Ofcourse not all of them are as sweet and caring as this guy is, but I will survive lol. I really dont consider him a superficial brat. But who know's how he will handle the situation. I'm thinking right now, when is a good time to tell him (which is never) and how do I tell him (I'm totally drawing a blank on that one). But hey thanx for the support, and thank you i will try my best to take good care of myself. Take care
Jessy
That you were not looking for a date in the chat room and you did not think you meet someone who interested you as he did nor would want to meet them.
Then tell him that because of that you did not send him a pix of you.
That you were not trying to trick him.
What I have learned from meeting someone on the net is:
Don't let some one or yourself e mail someone or chat with someone for such a long time that you have a preconcieved notion or fantasy,
Talk on the phone and then arrange to meet them for coffee.
That way if you don't have the chemistry neither of you will be disappointed because you have not invested that muich time into them.
However I have met guys from Match who's pics were several years ago and they had gained weight or lost hair.
That is why I want to meet them as soon as possible so if it is not good then I have not spent alot of time and energyu
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