I don't know what I am doing wrong?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2004
I don't know what I am doing wrong?
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Sat, 11-24-2007 - 7:50pm
I am nearly 32 years old. I think I am a catch. I have a job to be proud of. I am good looking from all accounts. I am easy going not high maintenence at all. I love being active from trying to newest restaurant to backpacking for a week in the mountains. I have good character and try to be honest and open. I volunteer to give back a little to the world. I am really funny and maybe a little sarcastic with foot in mouth disease but for the most part people just laugh about it with me. But with all that I haven't had a date in 5 years and before that the only guys I dated gave me this vibe that they weren't all that interested. The only long term "relationship" I've had was 10 years ago
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sat, 11-24-2007 - 8:49pm

Are you trying out new ways to meet people, just friends for now, like a backpacking club or a charity or a church, or any other interesting way to meet new people?

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Registered: 10-19-2007
Sat, 11-24-2007 - 9:50pm

I say this with no offense intended - but in hopes of trying to be helpful: you mention that by all accounts you are attractive. I think for guys the first thing they look for is a physical attraction. They need this before they pursue.


You may want to get some more neutral people to assess for you if this may be the issue? You need the opinion of men and also those who will be honest with you.


If all is good - I would go with the previous suggestions of getting out and trying new ways of meeting people. I would get active in new things which can widen your social group. You need to interface with new people and build from those new relationships to grow your social life.