I don't understand me
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I don't understand me
| Fri, 09-03-2004 - 1:12pm |
I don't get it. Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated.
I pretty much know what I want, but then again I don't I'm very indecisive and this causes issues, problems etc... IT IS NOT GOOD!
EXAMPLE:
it's like this I meet a guy and I like him for who he is and then I know I'd like to go out w/ him be his gal whatever, but then I start to dislike him for all the reasons I began to like him in the first place.
I pretty much know what I want, but then again I don't I'm very indecisive and this causes issues, problems etc... IT IS NOT GOOD!
EXAMPLE:
it's like this I meet a guy and I like him for who he is and then I know I'd like to go out w/ him be his gal whatever, but then I start to dislike him for all the reasons I began to like him in the first place.
It's confusing maybe and quite complicated - I'm just clueless as what to do.

Pianoguy thinks you're basically SCARED!
You seem to want a relationship...but as soon as you get to the point of having one, you screw up with a nasty comment...or you withdraw completely.
If this has been a common occurrence in all your relationships...how about getting some advice from a professional therapist? He or She might help you locate your problem and fix it?
Most of us who HONESTLY want to be with somebody don't want to "cool things down" the moment they start to get HOT!
Pianoguy