i don't understand why he gets pissy

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Registered: 11-30-2006
i don't understand why he gets pissy
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Thu, 11-30-2006 - 5:30pm
i met this guy at a bar 3 months ago. we've been hanging out ever since and see each other 3-4 times a week. basically i feel like we just have a physical relationship. we do watch movies and go out together, but there has not been talk of anything more serious. but why does he get mad when he calls and i'm out with friends? he's already told me that he doesn't really see himself being serious with me. i am just confused. i know i should move on, but i have already sort of fallen for him.
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 11:47pm
Honey, he gets all pissed when he calls you and you're out with friends because he wants to see you at his own convenience. If he doesn't have a plan and calls you he expects you to be there to hang out and such. He likes the relationship being casual where he calls and you jump. You're doing the right thing by keeping this guy as a friend because nothing serious will come out of this. Go out with friends and such, enjoy life and see him when YOU want to.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 12:14pm

Because he's selfish and wants you at his beck and call. Why is that so hard to understand?

Sheri

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Registered: 04-28-2003
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 1:19pm

I'm new and will just jump right in. Turn and run girl. Run fast and hard. I have been there done that and it sucks. The relationship will always be based on him. What he wants and needs. It will never be about you.

Lost~