I Don't Like You Vibes?
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| Sat, 10-29-2005 - 11:42pm |
I started online dating over the summer and since then I've been out on about 15 FIRST dates. Out of those 15 first dates only a couple times have I been asked out again. I've heard that online dating is a numbers game so I thought maybe that was my problem but the same thing happened when my friend fixed me up on a date and when I met a guy on my own and we exchanged numbers.
When I told this to a friend and told her I was confused she said that maybe I was putting out some weird vibe that my dates were picking up. Like, maybe I was sending out verbal or nonverbal "I don't really like you" vibes. I have no idea what I could be doing because it seems like both my date and myself are having a good time and usually there is talk of seeing each other again. Then, I go home, thinking the guy will contact me again and he never does. I'm told I'm attractive, I think I'm outgoing and relaxed, enough......I just don't get it.
Can someone please offer me some advice on this situation?
| Sun, 10-30-2005 - 4:04pm |
