I feel I being used

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Registered: 04-23-2004
I feel I being used
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 4:49pm
I have a boyfriend of four months. When we starting dating it was all good. He took me out every weekend, he called me all the times. Then he lost his call and after that happeded I started taking him to work and picking him up. He never gave me money for gas, he never offer me nothing, he always told me that he didn't have no money that his money went to bills and taxi's whenever he didn't have a ride to work. So I believed him. He doesn't call me like he use too anymore. He only calls when he need a ride or want to borrow some money. I feel like I'm being used. He tells me that he likes me and he wants to me with me. I'm Confused and I don't know what to do. Help!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 5:05pm

Hello chiquita!

 
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Registered: 01-13-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 3:19am
Stop giving him the power to make you miserable. Make a list of 5 fun and wonderful things you can do for yourself and don't give him any attention. He's got to grow up and get his life together. If it's too hard and too much of a struggle and you're not getting what you need it may mean it's in your best interest to let go. The world will not end if you don't rescue him. It will only keep making you feel resentful.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 6:17am
Well I think that you are not confused and I think you do know what to do. But in case you just need to hear it from an uninvolved party: He is using you and you need to dump him. Best of luck to you...go find a real man...who needs a boy? Thats what having kids is for....
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 8:02am
You are his taxi.

Lose the loser.

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:49pm
Get rid of the rat basturd. Next.