i gave him my number, will he call?
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i gave him my number, will he call?
| Sat, 10-28-2006 - 12:23pm |
Hi,
I met a boy at a bar, he gave me "the look" but we were unable to talk/dance, because he was with a female friend the rest of the night. I don't think they were lovers because there was no body language that said so (e.g. no kissing, no dancing, no touching - they were just chatting). So through a friend (sorry! lame i know) i told him i thought he was hot, and then before we left i gave him my phone number and name.
So basically based on women's experiences on giving out phone numbers - i was wondering if any of u girls have ever gotten a phone call after, and around when? Just wondering if i shouldn't hold my breath.
p.s. he's really cute ;)

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You might, I'm sure he's flattered you said you thought he was hot and were so bold. But if he does he also might think this is just a sexual thing.
Bottom line - there's no way to predict. He might, he might not. But brave you to go after what you want
Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOO much for your post!
It doesn't really matter if he calls or not - plenty more fish etc. But to have someone say that it's cool for me to do that makes me feel good. Most boys are so shy and i feel that i'll never get any action unless i make a move - but my girlfriends swear on "THE RULES" - and that making a move is a violation of them. But I think I'm going to keep on taking the initiative - no harm in asking, right?
In my playbook, the aggressive girl gets the guy.
You were not aggressive enough. You failed to find out whether this man was available for dating because you didn't ask. He doesn't know why he needs to call you, you could have asked him whether he wants to meet for coffee or some other night at the bar. You could have also taken his number and then made the choice to call him at a later time.
You handed contact control over to this man, now you have no choice but to wait.
Yes I realise now it is me who has to wait - but with this case, I am ok with it.
I am a really shy girl, and doing what I did is a big step for me. Plus it was really hard to aproach this guy cause he was with a female friend the entire night (she didn't even leave for bathroom breaks!)
We'll see what happens, and if nothing does, then plenty more fish etc.
Oh wow!
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