i gave him space by taking a break
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| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 8:24am |
we've been together 3 months - so happy & strong.in love,almost living together. but the past 3 weeks i felt that something is worrying him, that lots of things have changed in his life past months (he finally got a stable job, etc.)and that he needs some space...lots of reasons for that but i guess the main one is that he needs to realise whether he is ready for a relationship with me, a new one to him after being 4yrs (2 of them unhappy and full of fights) with another girl
i left on sunday, he cried.... on tuesday he tried to contact me - said he feels bad for doing it to me. but i need to be sure again that he loves me, that he needs me... i also had a painful break up last year but now im sure that im in love with my bf and that i need him
i dont know how to fill in this emptyness, created by our break. dont know how to continue to keep off from calling him, to tell him that i miss him hell...
im afraid that he will take long time before he decides and im VERY afraid that he will decide to stay away from me and be single.....
i need ur advice and ur words of reassurance

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thats exactly what i told myself this morning! :) thanks for confirming that the approach is the right one
i didnt call him at the end. and i dont think i will. it was just a moment of weakness that passed thank god. and i hope it will not return. my friends suggest i start dating someone else immediately (funny, they already spotted couple of guys "for me") but i refuse. i dont feel im ready. so for now i do all just for myself, trying to regain lost security and indifference; in the meantime i guess the best thing to do is to stop myself before i start thinking about him and this story. and to put a ban on pronouncing his name.
thanks a lot for being there
Good Luck....AND you WILL find HIM...I predict soon...just a feeling...just keep smiling...an looking pretty...having fun....you know yourself best...
Here's to sending 'good vibes' your way...!
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