I guess I have to bring it up now?

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Registered: 05-24-2006
I guess I have to bring it up now?
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 9:29pm
I have been dating a guy from my work for about a month now, we talk almost every day and have gone out a handful of times. Last week we were out at a work function and he was pretty drunk, we were talking and he asked me what was going on with us. I didn't want to have that conversation with him while he was drunk and while we were out with other people from work. I told him I wasn't sure but was open to anything and enjoyed spending time with him...he said the same and we left it at that which to me is still pretty undefined. Does anyone think he will bring it up again on his own? or is it up to me to at this point? Because it has really only been a month so I would normally worry that is was too soon to ask where things are going but since he already has should I just not worry about soundy needy/clingy and just bring it up?
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Registered: 05-25-2006
Tue, 06-20-2006 - 8:33am
He didn't sound needy or clingy bringing it up, so why should you?
You can introduce the topic by saying, hey, do you remember what you asked when you were drunk the other night? If he says yes, talk about it. If he says no, remind him, then talk about it.